2023年2月11日

我寫關於心理學的世界。得到它!蓋蒂的新研究發表在《性與婚姻治療試圖解釋為什麼高潮差距仍然存在,盡管努力陰蒂知識融入夫婦的性生活。研究指出性別性腳本關閉高潮差距的一個主要障礙。性腳本,根據這項研究,服務保障或指南的作用未知性情況。研究推測,性別的性腳本關閉快樂差距構成重大障礙有以下原因:他們遏製對女性快感,而是優先考慮男性的性快感。元素,如高性欲,性高潮,優勢,和主動性被歸結為男性。女性,另一方麵,預計將顯示更少的興趣性高潮和快感。女性高潮被視為比男性高潮更複雜和男性有高度生物需要高潮。他們阻礙真實的性經驗。 When men and women internalize these sexual scripts, such scripts might get “activated” during heterosexual sex, rendering all knowledge about clitoral stimulation irrelevant to the experience. The study suspects this is a major reason why increasing clitoral knowledge may not translate into orgasms for women during partnered sex. After conducting surveys about clitoral knowledge among 573 heterosexual participants, the study confirmed the following: Major gaps in clitoral knowledge persist for both men and women. For instance, both men and women struggled to come up with the correct answers to questions such as “The size of the clitoris is about the size of a pea [true, false],” “The clitoris has a foreskin, glans, and shaft [true, false],” “An orgasm is either clitoral or vaginal [true, false]” and “Which sexual practice is the most reliable route to orgasm for women? [oral sex; penile-vaginal intercourse, etc.]. Clitoral knowledge seems to translate into orgasms primarily during solo sex or masturbation. However, it does not seem to have the same effect during heterosexual partnered experiences. Keeping in mind the results of the study, here are two tips from sex and mental health researchers that can help people, especially women, experience gratifying sex that does not undermine their pleasure or orgasm: MORE FOR YOU Know and love yourself. Understanding what brings you pleasure is an important step towards better sexual experiences. Sexual mindfulness, according to psychologist Chelom Leavitt, starts with the self. Being curious not just about your orgasm, but also about your arousal can lead to heightened intimacy and pleasure. Applying the knowledge you have gained, clitoral or otherwise, is a pathway to better partnered sex. Ask for it. Sexual communication is the holy grail when it comes to going ‘off-script.’ Deliberate and curious conversations about each other’s desires and fantasies, according to sex researcher Zhana Vrangalova, can help you leave the crutch of gendered sexual scripts behind. Conclusion Compared to men, women experience 20%-50% fewer orgasms in heterosexual encounters. Women also express less enjoyment in their sexual encounters than their male counterparts. There are many ways to fix these issues but they all start with having more open and honest dialogues about sex.